Making a move in life always brings uncertainties along the way with so many things to consider in the choices we make. College, career, lifestyles, and loves all lead somewhere or nowhere....... Steps forward reveal what we leave behind...... and the value we place on a future.

My background is such that my husband kinda had the "final say" in decision making, even though we would typically talk things out. I had an opinion most often to share, but would defer to his judgment based on the doctrine we were taught.

Being in such a position is risky, because trusting my partner to make all the "right decisions" is an impossible feat for anyone. On the day he passed, I wish he'd listened to me.............. there has to be mutual respect in any relationship; without such, humanity falls.

On a daily basis, it is not unusual to be yelled at, leered over, glared at, and hassled in some way, by someone of self importance here in SoCal. Back east and elsewhere, it is an occasional occurrence. Making the decision to be kind is difficult because there is no "safe place" to land........

Logan and his new MB Surf team had a prosperous day at this first tournament at ASC today:) We also met up with dear friends and former Rockstar teammates, with hugs and smiles, as their bond remains special. Wish it could've been protected; however, in SoCal VB, the truth unfolds....

As time has accelerated in our lives, there are moves that need to be made in order for us to stay ahead. I will be training a new girl to take my position with Prudential before the end of October. I will then be solely focused on my personal business. and blog .......... and growing it.

"All steps lead forward." (Mick Seislove)