I have been a strong proponent of the belief that "all things work together for good" meaning, there is a reason tough stuff happens that does not seem to make any sense. Dealing with this suffering and loss firsthand, on multiple counts, gives me a pretty good idea of what I speak.....
Experience is the best teacher, and at times, the absolute hardest; however, authority comes from overcoming. It is with authority, I speak. Growing can result from grieving, if you trust the process........ leading you one step closer to your destiny.
When suffering sits in the soul, forging ahead and breaking through is very, very hard. I will not lie or lead you astray. However, purpose is power. If the purpose for suffering is discovered in the process, what you are going through is not for naught. This may be a new concept; however, it is a life giving one.......
A new way to view "loss."
"And we know that God causes all things to work together for good.... to those who love Him, and to those who are called, according to His purpose." (the Book of Romans, Chapter 8)
This calling is an invitation to you...... with the opportunity for communion, cooperation, and a synergistic partner, willing and ready to turn good from evil, gain from loss............