Why do we fear something we should embrace....

I once heard a celebrity actress make a wise statement that I've carried forward: it has to do with complaining. (J Lopez)

She stated something to the effect that if she is not willing to make the necessary changes, she does not allow herself to complain about something.

We choose our responses; our attitudes, and our thought patterns. Even when the most vile actions are perpetrated against me, I have the choose in my responses.

Will I play the role of victim or rise to the occasion as a victor? Does my suffering produce wretchedness or righteousness?

It is all in my hands...... and heart.